Seeking Soulmate + Kin's Domain Elisa D'haene
Seeking Soulmate + Kin's DomainAge: 37 years
Country: België
State/Province: België
City: Gent
About Me:
Hello fellow human beings J
I am a 32-year old girl, mother, woman. Anastasia came into my life in 2020, and she has been such a gift, such a recognition… Since I was very young I was dreaming about a life in nature, in harmony with all of life, plants, animals and human beings. I grew up in a city in Belgium, from which I tried to escape as often as possible untill I discovered playing the piano, which provided me with another kind of escape J I played classical piano for hours a day, years in a row. I made my dream come true, to go study in a prestigious pianoschool in Italy, after I finished conservatory in my city in Belgium. That was the turning point. I found out I don’t want to make music to be the best, to win competitions, to count mistakes and spend all of this precious lifetime practising to never reach the perfection they expect on a classical music stage. So I found myself lost, without my pianogoals that drove me all these years. So I decided to walk the camino de santiago, a pilgrimage that was a childhooddream, for which I finally had space. Sometimes it feels as if I only started to live there, in that magical summer of 2014! It was life as I had never experienced it: waking up to a new day at dawn, sleeping outside, never knowing how the day would turn out, where I would end up, who I would meet, what beauty I would see… It was also there that I started to feel this deep desire to give birth to a child. So I started to pray for a child, and a few months later I met my son’s father. After the caminosummer I went back to Belgium and started teaching in my former artistic highschool, but I felt I needed to taste some more of that freedom I had experienced walking through Spain, so I quit the job, and I left. I left for Denmark, to go volunteering at horseplaces and learn all about them, as I had dreamed of as a child. On the first horsefarm I met Casimir’s father. We fell in love quickly, and we both wanted a child. So we created this beautiful human being together, travelling in India. At that time, I didn’t have a clue of who I was, or what I really wanted to create in this life, I only felt this longing to be a mother. Then I became pregnant, and suddenly I was faced with everything. Long-hidden childhood pains, a longing for a safe and loving placet o give birth to my child. And I couldn’t handle Casimir’s father on top of all the stormy feeling inside of me. I felt I pulled back, inside of myself, and eventually I pushed him away completely, feeling unable to come close to eachother. We didn’t know eachother well when I got pregnant, and above all, I didn’t know myself well. So in the next six years, I’ve been going this road inwards, growing, clarifying all that was blurry before. I got back to my childhoodhome to give birth, got back to the pianoteaching job to provide for myself and my child. Casimir’s father, being from Poland, moved to Belgium as well, and settled down not far from us to be able to be present in casimir’s life. And in these 6 years, with lots of ups-and-downs, we managed to build up a stable friendship and respect for eachother. And we finally got to the point where we are preparing to leave Belgium, and go find a piece of this beautiful Earth where we can each build our little house, not too far from eachother, not too close, so casimir can roam freely between us, as he likes. Where we can live in harmony with all of life, where casimir can learn from the nature surrounding him… Casimir’s father doesn’t have anything with Anastasia and doesn’t want to hear about a lot of things she says, but inside he has the same desire to live in nature and respect life. For me, Anastasia’s ideas cristalized that what was already alive in me, though still asleep, and I feel I don’t have a choice but to go build my homestead, and experience the love that will emanate from all life around and within, and that will grow together and flow out into the world J
We will visit a few places in Spain where they are welcoming people who want to build their house on land that is already available,to be inhabited by likeminded people, who want to be loving neighbours for eachother, who can let their children grow up together, who can learn from and inspire eachother…. We are leaving coming January and I feel so excited to go find the place where I can settle down, put my roots in the Earth, wake up in the morning and witness the beauty of this Creation, cocreating this new world that is rising….
And if I can do this together with a Man who can see my beauty and appreciate what I came to bring to this world, that will be the dream come true… I feel sometimes I still have a hard time believing that it is possible to meet someone who has the same dreams as me, who has the same sacred feeling about life and all of Creation, and who wishes to live this sacred vision together with the woman he loves, and that that could be me. But this platform fills me with a lot of joy and hope, to see there are men outthere who want what I want, and even if I will not meet him here online, I now know that they do exist J.
And I don’t doubt about what I have to give to the Man I choose to live my life with: the ability to see the beauty and magic in the other, the dedication and engagement to grow together, mirror eachother, uplift and inspire eachother… Above all, clarity, openness, lightness and joy!
I don’t have a lot of money J but I came to the point where I am very trusting that God will provide me with everything I need… And my little/big Casimir is constantly coming up with new ideas to make some money! I love playing guitar and singing, so I might do some of that in the villages in Spain, let’s see! I’m studying ways to build a beautiful house with the least money possible, whoever wants to come and help me build from coming April to learn together, give me a sign!
Love to All!
