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Well said, Matthew,
JT you have been told the truth allready ;
It is not right at all for a man to use the books ”to try to justify one’s sick
fantasies”, and even posting them on these forums . You should be true to love and the situation with your partner and either devote wholeheartedly, or leave. ”Aspire to something brighter” indeed, but mostly to be honest with yourself.Let me tell you straight – You are awfully embarassing your wife and yourself , and your woman should have left you yesterday for dishonouring her and your child like that with such half-love ! She should end this sort of monstrous manipulation and selfishness of yours and never look back! That will allow her to meet / be with a Man who can truly love her in the right way and make her happy.
Your statements and posts are clearly objectifying women . It is disgraceful even for this very community to read this as if we are meant to put up with men coming here to look for alternative partners and promoting this type of attitude . You are only revelaing your own stupidity and selfishness, as you obviously don’t consider your own family holy or good enough. You know very little about love sadly.
It is almost certain that your partner is under 30-32 years of age, or most likely well under. Correct me pls if that is not true ? It is also very likely she is under a spell and perhaps too disembodied and/or traumatized to stand up for her love at this time but nonetheless – she is equally responsible for the kind of approach you are imagining to be ”good” or ”just”, and ”loving” . Suggesting it publically is disrespectful to the whole community here – not just to your wife and child , and to the very ideas for life encouraged in the books.
